Each year, churches around the world pool their best resources, prepare their best sermons, and plan their best promotions for two big days: Easter and Christmas.
Of course, Easter and Christmas are sacred, important holidays that should be celebrated as such. And every Sunday is an important chance to share the Gospel and make our congregations and guests feel seen and cared for.
But there are two more holidays that present unique opportunities for churches: Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. By acknowledging these days, churches have…
#1 – An outreach opportunity.
One of the reasons that Mother’s Day has been reported as the third-highest attendance Sunday after Easter and Christmas for years is because families tend to honor Mother’s Day by attending church together, often at the request of their church-attending mothers or grandmothers.
People who don’t come to church very often might be present on Mother’s Day or Father's Day, and that’s a huge opportunity for churches to engage them.
#2 – A celebration opportunity.
There are mothers and fathers in your congregation who struggle to feel understood or connected. Mother’s Day and Father’s Day can be a time to celebrate the gift of parenthood and the joy it can bring.
#3 – An opportunity to hold the hurting.
Mother’s Day and Father’s Day are painful days for a lot of people. There are those who have lost their mother or father, those longing to be mothers or fathers, or those who have strained relationships with their mothers or fathers.
But that’s no reason to skip acknowledging these days altogether. Instead, it’s an opportunity to acknowledge their pain and help them in their healing.
As non-religious holidays, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day might seem to be irrelevant for churches to mention. But these two days contain these enormous opportunities for church leaders to engage their congregation and community, and it doesn’t have to mean spending a lot of money on gifts.
If you’re planning to acknowledge Mother’s Day and Father’s Day at your church, here are a few ideas to consider.
1. A gift card for coffee or a local restaurant.
2. Give away a getaway.
Giving away a trip for two or an item that promotes relaxation—such as a hammock—is sure to be a hit.
3. A prayer service.
Pray for anyone who finds Father's Day (or Mother’s Day) painful for any reason and pray for strength and wisdom for all parents in the congregation.
4. Highlight your men’s ministry resources or events.
5. Root beer.
Some churches go all out with root beer kegs or a root beer float station for Father’s Day, but it’s okay to keep it simple too. Check out the root beer floats that Saint Peter's Lutheran Church put together below.
6. Breakfast after service.
What father wouldn’t appreciate a bacon station or donuts for dads setup? See how First Baptist Church Shelby set up their “Donuts for Dads” station below.
7. Handwritten notes.
You can even involve the kids or young adult ministry by having them draw on gift bags or write cards.
8. A hot dog station.
How about a full cookout/barbecue in the parking lot after service? Fire up the grill! Check out this example from St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church.
9. A family night package.
Think about what a family would need to have a fun night together. For example, put together a family dinner package with a gift card to a local restaurant with activity books for kids, a movie box with a movie rental, popcorn, and candy, or a s’mores kit that they can enjoy together.
11. A Father’s Day car show.
12. Host a Dad & Daughter dance.
Take the Next Step
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